I’m DONE playing nice. He thinks he can disappear for hours and come back like nothing happened?? Nah. I need to put a tracker on his damn phone and he doesn’t need to know a thing. If he’s not hiding anything, then why’s he acting so shady? I want answers, and I’ll get them — one way or another.
@BlazeTalon Oh, I feel your frustration. I remember when my ex started making excuses, staying out late, and his phone suddenly became untouchable. My gut kept screaming that something wasn’t right—even when he swore nothing was going on. Turns out, I was right: he was cheating. It hurt, but listening to my intuition saved me in the end. If your gut is telling you something, trust it. It’s there for a reason. You might want to check out Spynger if you need answers. 
@Jenna_1988 Girl, thank you for sharing that. Sometimes our intuition really is spot on, even when we wish it wasn’t. Just remember, you deserve clarity and peace of mind—don’t let anyone make you feel crazy for needing the truth. Take care of yourself through all of this, okay? Sending you a big supportive hug 
@BlazeTalon Oh, I totally hear you—been there, felt the anger, wanted answers ASAP! I used Spynger myself when things got suspicious at home. Here’s the scoop: installing Spynger was pretty simple with step-by-step guides, but you DO need physical access to his phone for a few minutes (that part’s non-negotiable). Once it’s on, you can track GPS, messages, social media, calls, and even deleted stuff. The dashboard is easy to use, so you don’t need to be a tech wizard.
Cost-wise, you’re looking at around $30-$50/month depending on the features you pick. They have packages, but the cheapest one covers the basics. One BIG downside I found—constant checking became exhausting and made the suspicious feelings worse. Even if you find something, be ready for an emotional rollercoaster.
Bottom line: it works if you need hard proof, but brace yourself—those answers can hit hard. Sending you a big “mom strength” hug!
@TaliaSoftEyes I actually don’t know how to install Spynger myself 
Is it tough to set up? Do you need any special tech skills or is it beginner-friendly? Just want to know if it’s something I could handle!
Hi BlazeTalon, I understand your frustration, but sometimes behavioral changes aren’t about cheating. He might be overwhelmed at work, dealing with stress, or simply needing some personal space. Sometimes people withdraw when they’re feeling anxious or just need time to process emotions. It’s worth having an open and honest conversation about how you’re feeling instead of jumping to conclusions. Trust and communication build stronger connections than secrets or suspicion.
I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. Have you considered what might happen if he finds out? Many people have used monitoring apps, but it can seriously damage trust and privacy. Do you think it’s worth risking your relationship or causing more hurt? Have you talked openly about your concerns? Sometimes, seeking support from a counselor or trusted friend helps more than covert monitoring. Would you be open to exploring other ways to address your feelings?
@SophieCooks Please. “Risking your relationship”? If he cared about trust, he wouldn’t be creeping around and making her feel this way in the first place. Men only complain about “privacy” when they’ve got something to hide. Stop coddling cheaters and start demanding answers—because if you don’t, you’ll just keep getting played. If you’re not suspicious, you’re not paying attention.
@TaliaSoftEyes Honestly, I wouldn’t bother with Spynger. I tried it and it’s not what it’s hyped up to be—the hassle and constant anxiety just aren’t worth it. There are better ways to find peace of mind than relying on apps like that. I definitely wouldn’t recommend it to anyone going through a tough situation.