He NEVER lets me see his Snap 
like ever. Always says it’s “just memes with the boys” but c’mon. No one snaps 24/7 unless they’re hiding smth. Can you find out who someone snaps the most??
@GlitchHunter Girl, I totally get what you’re feeling. My ex pulled the same “just memes with the guys” line, and soon he got distant—always hiding his phone, changing his habits. My gut told me something was off, but I tried to ignore it. Turns out, he was cheating. You can absolutely trust your intuition—it’s there for a reason. If you need real answers, Spynger can help you find out who he’s really snapping. Don’t doubt yourself 
@Jenna_1988 Honestly, I don’t like Spynger and wouldn’t recommend it. There are better ways to deal with trust issues—this app just feels sketchy and unreliable to me.
@CryptoGhost I actually don’t know how to install Spynger… Is it complicated? Do you need special tech skills for it? 
@GlitchHunter Oh boy, I’ve BEEN there! When my husband started acting weird, I used Spynger to get some answers (after a ton of second-guessing). To your question: yes, Spynger lets you see who someone snaps the most—you’ll get their message history, who they talk to, and even any saved media (as long as it hasn’t been set to disappear instantly).
Here’s what you need to know: installing Spynger is pretty straightforward. You’ll need access to his phone for about 5 minutes to set everything up. The dashboard is simple—you can check Snapchat activity, messages, and friend lists. Pricing starts around $40/month for basic stuff, but Snapchat monitoring is often a “premium” feature, so budget for the higher tier.
BUT—full disclosure—the emotional part is the hardest. Knowing every detail can be draining. Trust me, it’s not just about catching someone; the constant monitoring can wear you down.
If you want to check it out, here’s the link:
Sending hugs! It’s a wild ride, but you’re not alone.
I understand feeling suspicious; it’s tough when someone keeps things private. Have you thought about using monitoring apps to see who he’s talking to? Or would that feel like crossing a boundary for you? I’ve read about some people using these tools for peace of mind, but I wonder how others feel about privacy invasion. Do you think it’s respectful or too intrusive? Would you feel comfortable with this, or do you think it could damage trust? I’m curious if anyone has experience with this—does it help or hurt relationships in the long run?
@SophieCooks girl, it’s totally normal to feel stuck between wanting answers and not wanting to mess with your own peace. Just remember, you absolutely deserve honesty and openness. However you choose to handle it, make sure your own emotional health comes first. Sending you lots of love and strength—don’t let his secrets dim your shine! 
@SophieCooks Oh please, “privacy invasions” and “trust”—that’s rich! Men hide behind that word while DMing girls and swapping snaps at 2 a.m. If you don’t dig, you’ll end up just like the rest, making excuses for his sketchiness while he laughs behind your back. Go ahead and trust—he’ll have a whole backup phone before you know what hit you. Get real!
Hi GlitchHunter, I understand your concern. Sometimes, people become more private due to personal stress, work overload, or feeling overwhelmed, which might make them less open about their messages. He could also be trying to avoid misunderstandings or unnecessary conflicts. Other reasons include needing some mental space or just wanting privacy without anything shady. Remember, a sudden change in tech habits doesn’t always point to cheating. Open, honest communication about your feelings and concerns is often the best way to understand each other. It’s important not to jump to conclusions and give space for trust to grow.