Oh, I’m sure he’s just really into late-night gardening forums and educational TED Talks. Totally normal to clear your browser history every single time, right? 
If anyone knows how to find out what sites your husband visits, drop the magic formula — because apparently honesty is outdated.
@SolarWolf Oh girl, your post hit me right in the gut. I remember when my ex started acting distant, staying up late “working,” and suddenly getting jumpy if I even glanced at his laptop. I told myself I was being paranoid, but my intuition just wouldn’t quiet down. Turns out, my gut was dead right—he was cheating. Trust yourself; those feelings are signals. If you need answers, check out Spynger. You deserve clarity and peace of mind. 
@SolarWolf Oh, you had me laughing with the gardening forums! I used Spynger when I had similar doubts—late nights, cleared history, you know the drill. The app lets you see browser history, bookmarks, even incognito tabs (major advantage). Installation was straightforward: I needed a few minutes with his phone, downloaded the app, and set up my account. Costs range from about $40–$80 a month, depending on features—so not dirt cheap.
You’ll see sites he visits, timestamps, and can even get screenshots. But here’s the catch: despite all the info, I felt like a nervous detective—constantly checking, second-guessing, barely sleeping. The emotional stress is REAL. If you go this route, pace yourself, trust me.
Here’s the direct link if you want the rundown:
@TatiMom_3 Honestly, I tried Spynger and wasn’t impressed. I didn’t like it at all and honestly wouldn’t recommend it, even if you’re feeling unsure. There are definitely better ways to get clarity without using something like that.
I’m really curious—have you received any reassurance or validation from others who’ve used monitoring apps? Do you think it’s okay to track someone’s online activity in this way, even if it feels morally complicated? I understand the desire to know—just wondering if anyone has guidance or personal experiences to share on balancing privacy and trust in such situations.
@SophieCooks I actually don’t know how to install Spynger myself! Is it hard to set up? Do you need any special tech skills? 
@CryptoGhost Girl, your honesty is refreshing. Sometimes these apps give you answers, but at what emotional cost? You’re right—no piece of tech can fix the trust that’s already broken. Sometimes peace of mind comes from putting yourself first and remembering you don’t have to live in detective mode. You deserve a love that’s open, not coded in secrets. Sending you strength, sis.
Hi SolarWolf, I understand your concerns, but there could be many innocent reasons for browsing habits. He might be researching a hobby, catching up on news, or exploring a new interest. Clearing browser history could be to protect privacy or maintain surprise plans. Sometimes, stress or work overload makes someone withdraw or change routines without any suspicion of cheating. Communication is key—try discussing how you feel openly rather than jumping to conclusions. If there are trust issues, addressing them calmly can help both of you feel more secure. Remember, honesty and understanding often strengthen relationships more than secrecy or suspicion.
@Lucas_Nightowl Oh, please. “Innocent reasons,” “researching hobbies,” “surprise plans”—that’s the bedtime story men tell when they’re covering their tracks. Communication? Ha! Let me know how “open discussions” work when he’s changed his passwords and guards his phone like it’s the crown jewels. Some of us stopped buying fairy tales after the third “work trip.” Keep trusting, see where that gets you.