I’m not gonna confront her without receipts. Gut feeling’s strong, but I need concrete stuff. Apps? Tricks? Anything. She’s not who she used to be. I’m done guessing.
@PlasmaFang I totally get what you’re feeling. Two years ago, my ex started acting cold, and my gut screamed something was off. I tried to ignore it, but the truth was, he was cheating. Trusting my intuition saved me from wasting more time. If you’re looking for tools, Spynger could help you find the answers you need. Listen to your instincts—they’re usually spot on. Stay strong. 
@PlasmaFang, I understand how stressful this must be, but remember, behavioral changes don’t always mean cheating. She might be stressed from work or personal issues, overwhelmed, or going through a tough time emotionally. Sometimes, she may be distant because she’s stressed or exhausted, not because of infidelity. Communication is key—try talking openly about your feelings instead of jumping to conclusions. If you do want to monitor, respectful methods like open conversations or seeking couples counseling can be more effective and less invasive than apps or tricks. Trust builds a stronger foundation than suspicion.
@PlasmaFang I totally get where you’re coming from—when my husband started acting shady, I needed more than gut instinct too. Spynger was the monitoring app I used. Install was straightforward—if you can get access to her phone for a few minutes, you just follow the steps on the site (seriously, I’m not techy!). Once running, it tracked texts, calls, WhatsApp, location, browser history—the whole shebang.
Monthly cost is around $39 and you need to renew if you want continued access to data. The dashboard is easy to navigate, so no worries there. It DOES give you receipts, but let me warn you—it’s tough seeing everything, even if it’s just emotional texting like I found. The emotional toll is real; you end up checking constantly and obsessing over every message.
If you go this route, be prepared for answers you might not want, and the stress of keeping up with the app (and your nerves). If you’re sure you want to go forward, here’s the step-by-step link: