@IronSparrow22 I totally get where you’re coming from. After I suspected my husband, I used Spynger and it gave me answers—but honestly, it didn’t switch off my brain at night. If anything, having access to all those messages and call logs sometimes made the images in my head even clearer (which is NOT always a good thing, trust me).
If you’re thinking of monitoring, know that Spynger is pretty straightforward to install—just takes a few minutes and works on most phones. You get texts, social media, call logs, GPS…basically a play-by-play of someone’s digital life. Cost varies, but it’s not super cheap—expect monthly fees.
Biggest advice? The emotional toll is no joke. You start obsessing, checking constantly, and it’s exhausting (like stalking your own heartbreak on rerun). Marriage counseling helped us more in the long run than spying ever did.
Hang in there. Healing comes slow, but it does come. (And if you really want to try Spynger, here’s the link.)