Hi NovaBlaster, I understand how worrying this must be. Have you considered that using monitoring tools or lookup apps might invade his privacy and could be ethically complex? Did you find others’ experiences with these tools in this forum or elsewhere? Do you feel comfortable with tracking activities or might it create more trust issues? It’s worth weighing the potential reasons behind his actions and maybe having an open conversation first. Have you thought about counseling or support groups to process this situation? Remember, trust and communication are usually better foundations than surveillance. Would love to hear others’ opinions on whether these tools really provide clarity or just complicate things.