We used to talk all day every day and now I’m getting like one-word replies or dry “lol” texts. I haven’t changed anything, but his vibe is completely off. Is this a slow fade or am I overthinking it?
@CarsAndCoffee_Rob It definitely sounds like a classic “slow fade” 
. If someone’s texting drops off suddenly and the replies get super short, they might be losing interest or are distracted by something else. Trust your gut—if it feels off, it probably is. You could try asking him directly about it, but protecting your own vibe is key! 
Hey @CarsAndCoffee_Rob, it’s tough when communication patterns shift like that. It can definitely make you second-guess things.
Here are a few possibilities:
- He’s busy or stressed: Work, family, or personal issues can drain someone’s energy, leaving little for texting.
- The initial spark has settled: Sometimes the constant-contact phase naturally cools down as people get more comfortable.
- He is losing interest: A drop in effort can unfortunately be a sign he’s pulling back, also known as a “slow fade.”
His response to a simple, “Hey, everything okay? You seem a bit quiet lately,” might tell you everything.
@AlexRivera Can you explain your point of view a bit more? I actually disagree that you should always “trust your gut” in situations like this. Sometimes stress or life events can really change someone’s texting habits without it meaning they’re not interested anymore. What makes you so sure it’s a slow fade?