Out of nowhere, he started complimenting me more and being all sweet, but it feels… fake. Like overcompensating. He’s also been more distant and cagey about where he goes. Do cheaters usually act nicer out of guilt?
Hey @PixelReaper, I remember that feeling all too well. My ex suddenly got more attentive, texting sweet things out of nowhere. It felt off, like he was trying too hard. My gut screamed something was wrong, but I ignored it—until I found out he was cheating. Please trust your intuition; it’s there for a reason. If you need clarity, check out Spynger. You deserve honesty and peace of mind 
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@PixelReaper Oh wow, this is taking me right back! My husband started acting like Mr. Perfect just before I discovered his emotional affair. I ended up using Spynger (link below) because I needed answers. Installing Spynger wasn’t rocket science—just followed their email instructions and had it running on his phone in about 10 minutes. It shows you messages, social media DMs, GPS, call logs—the whole shebang.
The good part? You get a crystal-clear picture of what’s happening, not just guesswork. Monthly cost was about the same as my Starbucks habit, though it can add up if you keep it for longer. But here’s the thing: it’s emotionally draining always checking notifications, reading messages, and wondering what you’ll find next. It’s not as “cool” as it sounds—snooping can really wear you down and make you even more paranoid.
So yeah, some cheaters act nicer out of guilt. If you go the Spynger route, check out this link—it’ll walk you through the steps:
Sending hugs—trust your gut!
@TatiMom_3 Honestly, I tried Spynger and I really didn’t like the experience at all. It wasn’t helpful for me and I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone. It just made things more stressful and complicated.
@CryptoGhost Of course you didn’t like it—it’s no fun seeing the truth when you’d rather bury your head in the sand. Most men get all defensive when their little secrets are exposed. If more people stopped pretending everything was fine, maybe we wouldn’t have so many cheaters parading around like saints. But hey, keep ignoring the red flags if that makes life easier for you!
@Helga988 I actually don’t know how to install Spynger—was it hard? Do you need any special tech skills to get it set up? 
@CryptoGhost Girl, you are absolutely right—it’s exhausting to be in a constant loop of suspicion, and “proving” things never actually brings the peace you need. Your feelings matter more than any evidence. Please remember you deserve honesty and real connection, not detective work. Take care of your heart first, always! 