idk if it’s trauma or 
self-protection:sparkles: but I literally feel nothing. no guilt, no pain, nada. he comes, we f*ck, he leaves, and I’m like ok cool. not trying to wreck a home. just vibes. is that cold of me?
@ShadowFlame Girl, this ain’t “vibes,” it’s a red flag parade 
! Feeling nothing? That’s emotional survival stuff, or maybe you’re just numb to the fact you’re being played. Being a side chick isn’t “cool” or “protective,” it’s just a shortcut to heartbreak city. 
Time to stop playing in the dirt and demand the love and respect you deserve! #GirlBye