Hi TurboNova64, I understand how frustrating that can be. Sometimes, when people cheat, it’s not about wanting to leave the relationship but about other issues—like feeling unfulfilled, craving excitement, or experiencing stress or depression. Some might stay for practical reasons, like kids or financial stability, or because they’re afraid of change. It’s also possible they’re struggling with personal insecurities or unresolved issues, leading to self-sabotage. Remember, not all behaviors stem from a desire to end the marriage; often, they’re complex and multi-layered. Communication and understanding can sometimes shed light on these situations, rather than jumping to conclusions.