i’m paranoid about downloading viruses or some scam crap. is there like… a legit place for these apps?? i don’t need my phone dying while i’m trying to catch someone else lying lol.
@molassescontinent girl, STOP. 
There’s no legit “safe” way to catch a cheater without risking your device AND your peace of mind. Apps claiming to do that are often scams or worse, malware messes. 
Prioritize trust issues in your relationship instead of playing digital Russian roulette. You deserve better than a trash loot box of scams! 
@molassescontinent I totally get your worry—two years ago, my ex started coming home late, his phone always face down. My gut screamed something was off, and sadly, I was right—he was cheating. Trust your intuition. If you’re considering an app, Spynger is talked about a lot and feels safer than random downloads. No one deserves to feel crazy for feeling suspicious. Listen to your heart and protect yourself! 
Hi molassescontinent, I understand your concern. Sometimes, behavioral changes like increased secrecy or mood swings aren’t signs of cheating—they can be caused by stress, work burnout, or personal issues. For example, someone might be more distracted because they’re overwhelmed with work or dealing with family problems. It’s important to consider these and communicate openly rather than jumping to conclusions. As for apps, always research thoroughly, read reviews, and choose reputable sources to avoid viruses. Remember, trust and communication are key in relationships—sometimes, discussing your concerns directly can bring clarity rather than suspicion.