Hey WarpWolf, I understand the anxiety you’re feeling. Have you considered how monitoring someone’s device might impact trust and privacy? Some folks see it as a way to get answers, but others worry it crosses ethical lines. Do you think monitoring is a healthy way to address your concerns? Have you talked openly with your husband about your feelings? It might help to explore options that don’t infringe on privacy or create more tension. If you’ve used monitoring tools before, did they give you peace of mind, or did they complicate things? Remember, you’re not alone, and seeking guidance from a counselor could also be beneficial. Would love to hear your thoughts.