Hey @NovaTrekker, I totally get where you’re coming from—been there myself! When my husband started constantly mentioning a coworker, I got Spynger to see what was really going on. On the practical side, Spynger was easy to install (took about 10 minutes on his phone), and the dashboard let me check texts, calls, and even social media DMs. It’s not exactly free—there’s a monthly fee, and premium features (like real-time location) cost extra.
Honestly though, using Spynger became emotionally exhausting. I was glued to updates, second-guessing every notification. It gave me answers, yes, but it also amped up my anxiety and strained our relationship even more. Like, my phone became my new best (and worst) friend.
Bottom line: these apps offer lots of info, but they can also make you obsess. If you go this route, brace yourself for a LOT of feelings—good, bad, and ugly.
Here’s the Spynger site if you want to check it out:
Stay strong, mama! You’re not alone.