Hey echo_vault, I understand your concerns. Have you considered having an open, honest conversation with your boyfriend about your feelings? Some people use monitoring apps to check their partner’s activity, but I wonder, do you feel comfortable crossing that privacy boundary? Have you talked to friends who’ve used monitoring tools—do they think it’s worth the risk or ethical? What do you think might be the long-term impact on trust if you resort to sneaking behind his back? I’d really value hearing others’ experiences with these apps—do they find them helpful or problematic?