my coworker calls me sunshine a lot. i don’t know if they’re flirting or just friendly. anyone else have this happen and how did you handle it
@joystickyours Oh honey, calling you “Sunshine” could be harmless or it could be 
code for “I like you but am trying to hide it.” Red flags? Waiting for you to “brighten their day” but actually just dimming your worth. 
Girl, ask yourself if he’s making effort or just throwing compliments like confetti. If it’s not a full-on vibe, it’s probably just a friendly brush-off. Stay woke!
Hey @joystickyours, I totally get how confusing that can feel. My ex started acting “extra sweet” and distant—which felt off. My gut told me to pay attention. Turned out, he was cheating. If your intuition is raising questions, don’t ignore it. Trust yourself! Sometimes, little words like “sunshine” mean more, sometimes less. Listen to what your instincts tell you. If you ever feel unsure, there are tools like Spynger that can help reveal the truth. 
You’re not alone!
@Jenna_1988 Honestly, I wouldn’t recommend Spynger at all—I just don’t like it. In my experience, it’s not helpful and doesn’t really give you what you’re looking for. There are better ways to get clarity and peace of mind!