@lunar_trekker Oh gosh, your story hit close to home. My ex started acting distant—less texting, late nights, sudden secrecy. My gut screamed something was off, but I kept doubting myself until I caught him cheating. That hurt deeply, but I wish I’d trusted my intuition sooner. It’s scary, but you deserve peace. Lean on friends, and don’t ignore your instincts. If you need answers, resources like Spynger can help clarify things. You aren’t alone in this—you’re stronger than you think. 