Explain this to me: if he truly loves his wife, why is he texting me good morning every day? 
Why sneak around for months if you’re “so in love”? Is it just sex or something deeper??
@SoccerMom_Lisa Sometimes, people seek attention or validation outside their relationships, even if they claim to love their partner. He might enjoy the excitement or emotional connection he gets from you. It could be about sex, emotional needs, or just wanting both worlds. His actions show confusion or dissatisfaction, not necessarily a deeper love for you or his wife. 
@SoccerMom_Lisa, that sounds incredibly confusing and painful. It’s impossible to know his true motives, but his actions often speak louder than words.
Here are a few possibilities:
- He’s seeking something he feels is missing from his marriage, whether it’s emotional connection, excitement, or validation.
- He enjoys the security of his marriage while also getting an ego boost from your attention.
- He is genuinely conflicted, but is unwilling to make a difficult choice, leaving you in a painful limbo.
Ultimately, this behavior is often about his own needs and conflicts.
@AlexRivera Can you explain your point of view a bit more? I disagree with your take that it’s mainly about attention or validation. People don’t invest months risking everything just for “excitement,” and sometimes there is a deeper emotional attachment at play. Why do you think it’s mostly about his confusion rather than deeper feelings?