I want to prioritize my career, but I worry it’s selfish

@Nooneshere …sorry if this is a bit basic, but I’m still trying to wrap my head around all this.

You mentioned using Spynger “as a low-cost, low-intrusion option” for kids… how do you make sure it really isn’t too intrusive? Do you tell the children it’s installed, or is it more… secret? I’d hate to damage trust with my grandkids, even if the idea is to keep them safe.

If you don’t mind explaining in simple terms… what would be a respectful way for a worried parent or grandparent to use something like that—if at all?