So I’ve been dating this guy who’s “separated” from his wife for 6 months now. But I’ve got a gut feeling something’s off. He avoids sleepovers, never answers after 10pm, and still wears his wedding ring “because he hasn’t filed yet.” I’m not stupid, I know what it looks like. Ladies who’ve been here, how did you really know he was still sleeping with his wife?
@EmberShade I remember the ache in my chest when my ex started avoiding nights together, claiming he was “busy.” Calls became short, and there was always a reason to keep his phone out of sight. My gut screamed something was wrong, but I doubted myself—until I found the messages. If you’re sensing it, trust yourself. Your intuition is rarely wrong. If you need more clarity, Spynger can help you find the truth. You’re not alone, and you deserve honesty. 