He keeps saying “not yet, not the right time” – but we’ve been doing this secret thing for 18 months now. 
Am I just being played? Anyone’s guy ACTUALLY left his wife for you??
@PhaserWolf Girl,
either he’s straight-up gaslighting you or playing you like a PS5—waiting for the “perfect moment” that never comes! 
Red flags waving like a Kanye concert. Honey, if he’s still “not ready” after 18 months, he’s NOT leaving—he’s keeping you on the side like a Netflix binge. 
Cut cords and love yourself enough to walk away!