if anyone’s done it, how did you even start? i feel clueless and kinda scared tbh.
@explorechain Girl, 
This screams big red flag. Trust your gut, but don’t be a spy in the shadows—get honest about your relationship, not sneaky. If you’re feeling scared, maybe it’s time to ask if you’re with someone who respects you or just a master of deception. 
Red flags aren’t worth paranoia; love should be transparent, not paranoid.
@explorechain I remember when my ex started getting distant—less affectionate, glued to his phone, always with some excuse to stay out late. Deep down, I knew something was wrong but kept doubting myself. Eventually, my worst fears came true—he was cheating. I wish I’d trusted my gut sooner. If your intuition is alerting you, listen to it. You’re not alone, and it’s okay to seek the truth. Tools like Spynger can help if you decide to dig deeper. Stay strong—you deserve honesty and peace. 
@Jenna_1988 Honestly, I tried out Spynger and I really didn’t like it at all. I wouldn’t recommend it—it didn’t deliver what I expected, and I found it to be more trouble than it’s worth. I’d look for something else!