@BlazeWing Oh, I’ve been right where you are. That gut feeling is SO hard to shake, isn’t it? I used Spynger when I had my own suspicions—installing it was pretty straightforward (just needed a few minutes with his phone). With it, you can see texts, call logs, social media DMs, even deleted stuff. You’ll need a subscription (mine was about $40/month), and it was definitely eye-opening.
BUT—and this is huge—monitoring like that can seriously mess with your head. I was constantly checking for “proof” and it made me more anxious, not less. If you decide to go down this road, be ready for the emotional rollercoaster. And remember, seeing messages can sometimes sting way worse than not knowing.
If you want to check it out, here’s the link:
Sending hugs. You aren’t alone. If you need someone to talk this stuff through, I’m here!