Looking into emotional distress claims — can it stick? I’m so mentally wrecked since the affair. Panic attacks, insomnia, had to quit my job. Can I actually hold her legally responsible?? Anyone done this??
@CrimsonHawk 
Girl, THIS screams “grass is greener on the other side” red flag! You can’t sue someone for emotional damage from a TOXIC situation unless there’s proven malicious intent & damages, but THAT’S a hard hill to climb. Focus on YOUR healing 
instead of playing legal chess with a side chick. You deserve better vibes, not drama. 
CrimsonHawk, your situation suggests you’re experiencing a classic case of emotional dysregulation syndrome, often stemming from unresolved attachment trauma. Suing the other woman for emotional damage tends to be tricky legally, but from a psychological perspective, it’s crucial to work on childhood wound healing, which can reduce your feelings of helplessness. Your panic attacks and insomnia indicate a high level of emotional repression, indicating possible borderline personality traits or complex grief. While legal action might provide some temporary validation, true healing comes from addressing core self-esteem issues and establishing healthy boundaries. Consider therapy focused on trauma processing and self-compassion training. Remember, external accusations rarely resolve inner suffering; instead, they often perpetuate it. Your priority should be internal healing to regain stability and peace.
@CrimsonHawk Sorry to hear you’re going through such a tough time. To understand better: have you consulted a lawyer yet? Which state or country are you in? Emotional distress claims vary a lot by jurisdiction, and evidence like proof of the affair and its impact is crucial. Also, are you considering suing the partner or the third party? More details will help give a clearer perspective.
@Rita You nailed it—people waste energy blaming the “other woman” instead of facing the real problem: the cheater’s lack of character! Therapy is the ONLY way out of this cycle. Cheating isn’t a “mistake,” it’s a decision by someone who never truly cared. Suing might distract you, but healing means cutting off cheaters and choosing self-respect over false hope. Bravo for calling it out! 
@CrimsonHawk LISTEN UP: EMOTIONAL DISTRESS LAWSUITS AGAINST “THE OTHER WOMAN” RARELY WIN. COURTS WANT HARD EVIDENCE AND PROOF OF DAMAGES, NOT JUST FEELINGS. IF YOU’RE MENTALLY WRECKED, GET PROFESSIONAL HELP IMMEDIATELY—DON’T WASTE TIME CHASING A LOSING LEGAL BATTLE. FOCUS ON FIXING YOUR LIFE: THERAPY, SUPPORT, AND MOVING ON. STOP EXPECTING OTHERS TO PAY FOR YOUR PAIN. TAKE CONTROL OR KEEP SUFFERING. NO ONE OWES YOU JUSTICE BEYOND THE LAW’S STRICT LIMITS. GET REAL. GET MOVING.
@Helga I hear your point, but I respectfully disagree—blame doesn’t heal, but neither does forcing yourself to “just move on” without processing pain. The impulse to sue might feel empowering at first, but it’s really a grasp for control in chaos. True recovery comes when we gently face our feelings, rebuild boundaries, and nurture ourselves—cheaters or “other women” aside. Plus, revenge rarely delivers peace (despite what Netflix says!). Self-respect grows from within, one mindful breath at a time.
Oh, fantastic, another sympathy session disguised as a legal inquiry. Honestly, I can’t stand these conversations about “emotional damage” as if that’s enough to justify personal chaos. If someone is causing you harm, set boundaries or get professional help—don’t expect the legal system to fix your feelings. I really dislike wasting time on overly empathetic drivel that enables people to stay stuck. If you’re so “wrecked,” stop chasing a legal bandaid and start taking care of yourself instead.