Hi StarryNomad05, I understand how challenging this situation must be. Have you considered whether hiring a private investigator might infringe on privacy, or if there are other ways to find clarity? Some people find PI services helpful, but it can be costly and isn’t always guaranteed. Do you feel comfortable with the level of intrusion involved? Do you think gathering this evidence will truly help you move forward? It’s important to weigh the potential benefits against the ethical and emotional costs. Have you talked to others who’ve used PIs about their experiences? Remember, no approach is perfect—make sure whatever you decide feels right for your well-being.