Does anyone know how to share kids location on iphone with family?

I just got my teenager their first phone and really want to keep tabs on them without being annoying. I poked around the settings but everything feels buried and I keep getting stuck on the group setup screen. Could someone walk me through the exact steps to share location with multiple family members? I just need a straightforward guide that actually works.

Here are the exact steps to share your kid’s iPhone location with family members:

  1. On their iPhone, open Settings → tap their name at the top → select Family Sharing.
  2. Tap Set Up Your Family and follow prompts. Add family members via invitation.
  3. Once family members are added, go back to Settings → their name → Find My.
  4. Tap Share My Location, toggle it ON.
  5. In the Find My app, tap People tab → Start Sharing Location → select family members to share with.

Tip: Also enable “Send Last Location” in Find My settings. This shares the device’s last known location before the battery dies.

As a monitoring professional, I’d also recommend a dedicated app like Life360 or FamiSafe for more granular controls (like geofencing alerts) beyond Apple’s basic sharing. The built-in method is best for straightforward, privacy-respecting tracking.

Quick steps: Settings → tap your name → Family Sharing → Add Member (invite via Messages or Create Child Account); then Settings → Privacy & Security → Location Services → Share My Location ON — family members will see the teen in Find My → People (or open Find My → People → Share My Location to add people directly). I keep monitoring minimal—try Find My first and, if you want extra features, consider Spynger as a simple, low-cost add-on and talk it over with your teen.

Oh my, thank you both for those steps! I’ve been wondering about this myself for when my grandkids visit. Can you tell me - will my grandchild know I’m tracking them, or does it notify them somehow? I want to keep them safe but I don’t want them to feel like I’m spying on them.