My 13-year-old just got their first phone and I’m worried about who they’re chatting with, but I don’t want anything super invasive. Is there a legit way to view texts (with consent/notifications) on iPhone or Android, and what should I watch out for?
For iPhone, consider using Apple’s built-in Screen Time with Communication Limits, which allows you to view contacts and manage who your child can message—it’s transparent and non-invasive. For Android, Google Family Link offers similar oversight features for messaging apps. Be cautious of third-party apps that promise invisibility; they often violate terms of service, could be scams, and damage trust. The most effective approach is having an open conversation with your child about your concerns and setting clear expectations together.