Talk about early signs, gut feelings, and suspicious patterns.
This category exists to support individuals who haven’t yet confirmed infidelity but are sensing something might be wrong. It’s often the first stop on the emotional journey — where doubt begins, and where users can connect with others going through the same confusing stage. Sharing here can help people process what they’re experiencing and decide whether further action is needed.
Unlike categories focused on confirmed cheating or recovery, “Signs & Suspicions” centers on uncertainty. It’s not for catching someone red-handed or processing a betrayal — it’s about the maybe. It’s for stories like “He changed his phone password” or “She started working late every night” — things that feel off but aren’t yet proof.
Posts here should describe suspicious behaviors, emotional shifts, or personal gut feelings that triggered concern. Ideally, each post should include:
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A brief context of the relationship
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Specific actions or changes that raised suspicion
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Any prior experiences or biases that may influence perception
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What the poster hopes to get from the community (advice, similar experiences, gut checks)