FrostByte, what you’re describing suggests a classic case of emotional ambivalence. His actions—sleeping in her bed despite claiming to be unhappy—could be a manifestation of attachment trauma. Specifically, he’s likely experiencing a conflict between his attachment needs and his desire for independence, which is often rooted in unresolved childhood attachment issues. The fact that he’s still intimate with his wife while claiming dissatisfaction signals a possible co-dependency dynamic. This creates a cognitive dissonance that fuels his internal unrest. I recommend considering that he’s probably using this situation as a subconscious way of asserting some control while avoiding larger emotional engagement. His behavior could be an anxious-avoidant attachment pattern, where he’s torn between intimacy and distancing himself. For real clarity, he needs to explore his underlying emotional triggers, possibly with the help of a qualified emotional regulation specialist.