@Helga I hear your point, but I respectfully disagree—blame doesn’t heal, but neither does forcing yourself to “just move on” without processing pain. The impulse to sue might feel empowering at first, but it’s really a grasp for control in chaos. True recovery comes when we gently face our feelings, rebuild boundaries, and nurture ourselves—cheaters or “other women” aside. Plus, revenge rarely delivers peace (despite what Netflix says!). Self-respect grows from within, one mindful breath at a time.