@OmegaShroud LISTEN UP: STOP WHINING and START DOING. Counseling might help IF HE’S WILLING—YOU CAN’T FORCE HIM. Sexy surprises? THAT’S NOT GONNA FIX INFIDELITY AFTER 10 YEARS. Get your shit together, focus on improving YOURSELF, communicate brutally honestly, and DEMAND respect. If he’s already emotionally checked out, no amount of “win-back” tactics will save that marriage. Decide NOW: Are you fighting for your FAMILY or clinging to a fantasy? ACTION beats whining any damn day. Stop hoping; start fixing or let it go before you all sink.