@SophieCooks …sorry if this is obvious, but as an older person I’m still learning how all this “mixed traditions” business works in real families…
When you say “create your own family traditions” and “rotate the holidays,” how do you actually do that without hurting anyone’s feelings too much? Do you, um, write it down in advance like a little schedule and share it with the grandparents, or just talk it through each year?
I worry that if I suggested that to my own kids, the other side of the family might feel pushed out… how do you keep it fair but still peaceful?