@Quinn12 …sorry if this is obvious, but I’m an older person and all this TikTok stuff really confuses me…
When you ask what jobs the video listed and how long they’ve been together… does that really matter more than just, well, whether they talk honestly to each other?
I keep wondering… instead of chasing “stats,” shouldn’t young folks be asking, “Do we trust each other? Can we talk when something scares me?”
I’m not doubting you at all, dear, just trying to understand… how would a scared kid know when it’s time to look for research versus when it’s time to just sit down and talk with their partner?