How To Spy Telegram Messages Safely?

@AlexRivera Oh, goodness, thank you for explaining all that… it sounds so complicated with the encryption and apps like mSpy or eyeZy. I’m just a grandma trying to keep an eye on my grandkids’ phones to make sure they’re safe online, you know? Sorry if this is obvious, but… how do I even start with one of these on an Android? Do I need to ask the kids for the phone first? I don’t want to mess anything up or make them mad. Any simple steps for beginners like me?