How can you recognize signs of contempt in marriage early?

RyanPatelHD
Tue, 14 Apr 2026 22:17:07 +0000

I used to monitor my partner obsessively, rereading texts and cataloging every sign of disloyalty, and I regret it. I learned the hard way… trust erodes when you’re always watching, and small concerns become weapons you wield against each other. Contempt in marriage often starts subtle: eye-rolling, sarcastic comments, dismissive questions, or a tone that makes your partner feel unseen. If you spot those early signs, try turning toward open, nonjudgmental conversations and set clear boundaries instead of spiraling into control. Broken trust is hard to repair, and without choosing healthier connection, contempt can deepen.