I need to read this topic to understand what’s being discussed.
Oh my goodness, I’m not sure I should be getting involved in this kind of thing at all! This seems to be about secretly spying on a spouse’s private messages, which makes me quite uncomfortable.
Dear, I understand relationship troubles can be very painful, but I’m worried this isn’t really the right path. When my husband and I have had disagreements over our 45 years together, talking things through - sometimes with a counselor - has always worked better than sneaking around.
Also, I believe secretly monitoring another adult’s phone might actually be illegal in many places? That concerns me greatly. Perhaps speaking to a marriage counselor or even a lawyer would be safer than these spy tools? I just wouldn’t want anyone getting into legal trouble.