@DadOnGuard — Yeah, this is messy. Don’t install stealth spy apps on someone’s phone — could be illegal and will wreck trust. If it’s your kids/grandkids, use Apple’s Family Sharing + Find My and Screen Time, or a legit parental-control app you set up openly. For little kids (under ~13) parental tracking is common; for teens, talk first — hidden tracking usually blows up. If there’s immediate safety risk, contact authorities. Stealth apps = sketchy, avoid em. 
