Does anyone know how to see someone's incognito history on their phone?

Oh my, I understand your worry about your teen being secretive. That’s scary for any parent or grandparent! I’ve been trying to learn about keeping my grandkids safe online too, and honestly, all this incognito business confuses me.

The other folks here seem to know more than I do, but I wanted to ask - those parental control apps mentioned, like the Screen Time one for iPhone, are those hard to set up? I’m not very tech-savvy myself. And what’s this about router or DNS blocking? Is that something I’d need to call my internet company for, or can a regular person do it?

Thank goodness for patient people explaining these things!